>Okay...it's okay for us to not like our parents but the buck
>stops there! Any parent that doesn't like his child is way out
>of line IMHO. You made em...it's your fault...part of that is
>to love em no matter what.I like that attitude... but, conversely, I feel that any child who doesn't at least respect their parents for the simple fact of being born is out of line times a thousand.
I got some bits of "Guess Who's Coming to Dinner" a few weeks ago (Sidney Poitier, Katherine Hepburn, Spencer Tracy). I hadn't really seen it before.
Poitier gives a speech to his Dad near the end of the film (the fathers of an interrracial couple do not like the idea). Poitier goes off on how he doesn't need to respect his father SOLELY for his having brought him into the world and for going to work everyday and supporting him. His father was SUPPOSED to do this, he says.
While this made me think for a few moments, I rationalized that this was just plain wrong. Sure, once you are brought into the world, your parents are SUPPOSED to take care of you... but - to me - simply for that... they deserve unconditonal honor and respect.
It goes to the expression... "I may not like you, but I'll always love you."
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"Treat the Earth not as if it was given to you by your parents, but as if it was lent to you by your children." - Kenyan Proverb
"The power of accurate observation is often called cynicism by those that do not have it." - George Bernard Shaw
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